Dear Abena

My husband of over two decades, has revealed to me his  wife and our children that he identifies as a woman and wishes to be known as "Wanda." My good good Dwayne! now Wanda, has begun the process of undergoing hormone therapy and changing his legal gender. However, Abena I refuses to accept her spouse's new identity and is fighting back against this stupid gender change.

Our marriage has been strained in recent years, with Dwayne struggling with feelings of gender dysphoria. Abena, I have always been supportive of her I mean his .. my husband's mental health journey, but I could never have imagined that her husband would want to become a woman. The revelation has left her feeling betrayed and confused, causing a rift between them that seems impossible to mend.

Dwayne, now Wanda, has filed a petition with the courts seeking a legal gender change, arguing that it is essential for her mental and emotional well-being. Abena, I have launched a legal battle to prevent her husband's gender change, claiming that it is a betrayal of their marriage vows and that she I mean he is the only legal wife of Dwayne Kingston.

The case has attracted the attention of the media, with both sides presenting passionate arguments. Advocates for transgender rights argue that Wanda's gender change is a matter of personal identity and that Abena should respect her husband's decision. Abena's I have my supporters, however, believe that the sanctity of marriage should be upheld, and that Wanda should not be allowed to simply abandon her role as a husband.

The outcome of this case will have significant implications for the transgender community, potentially setting a precedent for future cases involving gender identity and marriage. As the legal battle rages on, Abena and Wanda's children watch helplessly, torn between their love for their mother and father and the understanding that their family will never be the same again.

In the midst of this heart-wrenching story, one thing is clear: the path to healing and understanding will not be an easy one, and the consequences of this legal battle will be felt for years to come.