Abena's Advice: Dump Cheating Girlfriend - Letter & Response

Abena's Advice: Dump Cheating Girlfriend - Letter & Response

Dear Abena,

I am in a terrible situation and I don't know what to do. My girlfriend has been cheating on me for the past few months, and I can't seem to get over it. I love her so much, but I can't stand the thought of her being with someone else. I've tried to talk to her about it, but she just denies everything and says I'm imagining things. I don't know what to do, Abena. Should I dump her?

Sincerely,

A Heartbroken Lover

Abena's Response

Dear Heartbroken Lover,

I'm so sorry to hear about your situation. It's never easy to deal with a cheating partner, and it's natural to feel hurt and betrayed. However, I believe that you should consider dumping her. Here's why:

• Trust is the foundation of any relationship. If she's cheating on you, it means she's broken that trust, and it's unlikely that she'll ever regain it.
• Cheating is a sign of disrespect and a lack of commitment. If she's willing to cheat on you, she's not valuing your relationship or your feelings.
• You deserve better. You deserve a partner who is loyal, honest, and committed to you. If she's not that person, it's time to move on.

I understand that it's hard to let go of someone you love, but sometimes it's the best thing you can do for yourself. Remember, you deserve happiness and love, and you'll find it when you let go of the past and move forward.

Take care,

Abena