Dear Abena

I am writing to you with a heavy heart, seeking your guidance in a dire situation. My stepson, a talented deejay, has committed a horrific act in Kingston ghetto. The victim, his own brother, was a notorious criminal bank robber. Our family is currently concealing this tragic event from the world.

I am at a loss as to what to do. My heart aches for my stepson, who is now burdened with the weight of his actions. I fear that if we do not seek help, our family may crumble under the strain of this secret. Please, Abena, advise me on how to move forward.

With great anticipation, I await your response. Your wisdom and guidance may be the key to saving our family from the darkness that has enveloped us.

Sincerely, A Concerned Family Member

Abena's Advice: In such a difficult situation, the best course of action is to call the police. This will ensure that the authorities can investigate the matter thoroughly and bring justice to both parties involved. It is important to remember that the truth will eventually come to light, and hiding it will only cause more harm in the long run.

Dear Abena: Stepson's Desire, Hospital Hookup & Wicked Words!

Dear Abena,

Imagine my shock when my nurse stepson revealed his desires to me, something that I had never anticipated nor prepared for! His intentions were as bold as his words, and it sent shivers down my spine. The very thought of it made my heart race, and I could not help but feel a wave of unease wash over me.

Then there was the hospital hookup. As if the first encounter was not enough, fate conspired to throw another curveball my way. I found myself in a hospital, my body feeling weak and vulnerable. My guard was down, and I was no match for the temptations that awaited me there. Him being my nurse, of all people, took advantage of my situation and tried to pull me into a world I had never before experienced.

Wicked words were spoken, and their impact was devastating. The power of  hits tongue is not to be underestimated, and those words have left an indelible mark on my soul.

Dear Abena, Today, I find myself writing to you with heavy heart, my dear advisor. You may already be aware that I share an unbreakable blood tie with my daughter—and yet, I may also be one of her darkest demons in her life. I would never have believed that father and daughter could be connected by such twisted ties that now bind us. To seek your wisdom, it takes a confession out of me that I consider deeply shameful. Let me explain to you a confession so incestuous that I fear society may never let me look into the eyes of someone so innocent and pure—an innocent daughter, unborn. Alas, this confession will be riddled with guilt. I once promised myself, and society, that I would hold a high standard of life for my unborn—educate her, show her the beauty of wisdom and knowledge. But one wrong turn on my end and I've placed the life I vowed to protect, in extreme jeopardy—all because I couldn’t resist her. An obsession for her consumed me, leaving me unguarded, vulnerable for a sin too dark—one that my daughter still remains unaware of—that I was the biological father of my unborn daughter. To be quite honest with you, dear Abena, I can't begin to express the horrifying emotions that wrack my insides: regret, remorse and, above all, that terrifying question—who is the true monster lurking in this story. Could it be me who could not contain my burning lust for her, despite my knowledge that it might tear our relationship apart; or could it be this young, naive but brave girl, who fights a battle within herself. Is it society that needs to be condemned; society that looks at love as a privilege only two opposite genders can seek and share, or as you, I am writing you this letter, Abena, my confessions may be in vain if it is left un-attended to. If she finds out, then her life and mine as she knows it will become the stuff of nightmares. I fear an end to my life too; I know that any mention of incest draws condemnation from man and God alike. Therefore, I beg you; will you share my heartrending dilemmas with the world beyond my confessions? Are there any rays of hope left? Sincerely awaiting your reply, Anonymous

Dear Abena: Estranged Sister's Rape Attempt - Police Involvement?

Dear Abena,

I hope this letter finds you in good health and high spirits. I am writing to share a harrowing experience that has left me feeling shaken and unsure of how to proceed. My one daughter, whom I have not seen or spoken to in years, has confided in me about a terrifying ordeal she recently faced.

She was walking home from work late one evening when a her estranged brother approached her, threatening her with a knife and attempting to rape her. Thankfully, she was able to fight him off and escape, but the trauma of the experience has left her shaken and unable to sleep at night.

I have urged her to report the incident to the police, but she is hesitant, fearing that her attacker may come after her again. I am at a loss as to how to help her, and I cannot bear the thought of her living in fear.

I am reaching out to you, Abena, because you have always been a source of strength and wisdom for me. I know that you have faced your own challenges in life, and I believe that your experience and understanding of the world can help guide me in supporting my sister through this difficult time.

If you have any advice or suggestions on how to approach this situation, I would be eternally grateful. I know that you are busy and may not have the time to respond, but even a brief message would mean the world to me.

Thank you for taking the time to read this letter. I hope to hear from you soon.

Warm regards